Templecruiser Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 Last week I was diagnosed with NPC cancer with a 2 inch tumor in my nasal cavity. Next week I have my first Oncologist visit, PET scan and a radiation consultation. I’ve had a cruise booked for almost a year on Harmony on December 10th with my daughter and grandchildren. I really want to go as I just don’t know what is going to happen after and might not get this chance again. It’s been 3 weeks when they found the tumor and I feel no different and can’t see how another couple weeks would make much of a difference. Then start treatment when I get back. Am I being selfish? RCIfan1912, KristiZ, Big Tule and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokeybandit Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 This is a conversation better had with your doctor Baked Alaska, Templecruiser and Big Tule 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twangster Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis and hope for the best for you. This may be a discussion you should have with your doctors first to get their thoughts. A cancer diagnosis does not preclude you from going on a cruise but individual circumstances and progression of treatment will vary from one person to the next. There is no single answer yes or no answer to your question, it's something best sorted out with your caregivers. Baked Alaska, Templecruiser, RCIfan1912 and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Tule Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 I am so sorry at your news.You may want to consider your vulnerability to contracting Covid whilst on the ship ...it may delay your treatment when you get off due to lowered immunity if you have to have chemo/radiation.as @smokeybandit says your doctor is the only person to guide you with this decision..stay well Baked Alaska, RCIfan1912, Templecruiser and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrianB Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 I wish you the best of luck and hope you go through the process of beating this quickly and easily. I agree with my fellow posters…check with your medical professionals. Only they can give you the best advice. Templecruiser and Baked Alaska 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Templecruiser Posted November 26, 2022 Author Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 Thank everyone for quick replies. I know most if not all doctors will want you to start treatment ASAP and have a negative response to delay treatment. I guess I will find out on Monday what he thinks. BrianB, Baked Alaska, WAAAYTOOO and 4 others 2 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PL8SWPR Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 Definitely between you and your doctors. Follow their advice. I'm guessing it will depend on how aggressive your type is. I took a cruise in 2018 to celebrate end of interferon injections for stage 3 melanoma. Used sunscreen heavy that trip because I had an oncology appointment days after returning. She would have kick my arse had I come back burnt :-). I have my last PET scan (#10) in a couple weeks before being declared "cured." Hang in there... Okgladgal, Jill, Big Tule and 3 others 3 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoomSlayer Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 I’m sorry you are going through this. The answer to can you cruise with cancer is yes. But the more important question of should you cruise with cancer is not so easy. This becomes a personal question and conversation you should have with your doctor. I don’t think anyone here can truly answer that question for you. I wish you all the best on your journey to recovery. Baked Alaska and Templecruiser 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotPayinExtra Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 Sometimes based on the severity it can be a few weeks waiting for an appointment to start treatment. (Mother in law had something similar) Maybe first available date will be after trip? If not it's fate telling you do treatment first and plan trip bigger and better next year. Mother in law had it at 85 and is 87 now. Still going strong. It's not always as bad as we first think. Her cancer is just something in her past now. Sending positive thoughts your way. Soon it will be behind you. Have a great trip whenever you go. Templecruiser and ChessE4 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Linda R Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 Am sorry to hear of your diagnosis. Yes, you can travel with cancer. My Mom had pancreatic cancer and I took her on her last trip. While she didn't necessarily feel well part of the cruise, but did love that she was able to go. Templecruiser 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jill Posted November 26, 2022 Report Share Posted November 26, 2022 Until you really know what you’re dealing with, you’ll just have to sit tight and discuss with your team. My oncologist was very much for living life and not missing big events (weddings, graduations etc). As someone else said, it could be a couple of weeks before you can start treatment. A lot depends if it’s an aggressive type or slow growing. Then there’s Covid, Flu and RSV going around. Luckily the time after thanksgiving and before Christmas is a slower time for cruising. You certainly don’t want to get sick before starting treatment Hoping you can go but if not, plan a big one after treatment. I had an awesome “I kicked cancer’s ass” cruise on oasis with close friends. Best of luck to you! I’m a little over 6 years cancer free from stage 4b endometrial cancer. It’s not a death sentence anymore. Be sure to ask for genomic testing on the tissue to help identify the best treatment drugs. Big Tule, Templecruiser, NotPayinExtra and 1 other 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ampurp85 Posted November 27, 2022 Report Share Posted November 27, 2022 I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis, I wish you the best, I echo what many have said. The important thing is to talk with your doctors. I am all for living your best life while you can. If treatment starts after your cruise, just take the necessary precautions. It is not selfish to want to enjoy time with your family, especially given the circumstances. RCIfan1912 and Templecruiser 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike n Ky Posted November 27, 2022 Report Share Posted November 27, 2022 I have to say that my first thought was echoed by many, talking with your doctor. My second thought? Book another cruise for a year from now. I truly hope that you will in fact have a great outcome and be able to report back you are about to get onboard again next year. RCIfan1912 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike2608 Posted November 27, 2022 Report Share Posted November 27, 2022 I hope whatever treatment they give you that it works and you go into remission, and hopefully your doctor says that you can enjoy your cruise. Templecruiser and WAAAYTOOO 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Templecruiser Posted November 29, 2022 Author Report Share Posted November 29, 2022 Had talk with Oncologist today, and he pretty much said I should have no problem with the trip. There are more test and radiology mold to be made and a port to be put in before treatment can start, so I have a little time. Big smile now, but don’t look forward to 5+ months of treatment after. But I will fully enjoy this trip like it’s my last. smokeybandit, WAAAYTOOO, FloatyBoaty and 6 others 8 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luv2sail Posted November 29, 2022 Report Share Posted November 29, 2022 I wish you the best outcome possible and Godspeed in the months ahead. I hope this trip is your best yet, with many more wonderful trips in the future. Templecruiser 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fireclan Posted November 29, 2022 Report Share Posted November 29, 2022 I am so happy that your cruise is a go! I hope you, your daughter and grandchildren have a great time. Templecruiser 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NotPayinExtra Posted November 29, 2022 Report Share Posted November 29, 2022 35 minutes ago, Templecruiser said: Had talk with Oncologist today, and he pretty much said I should have no problem with the trip. There are more test and radiology mold to be made and a port to be put in before treatment can start, so I have a little time. Big smile now, but don’t look forward to 5+ months of treatment after. But I will fully enjoy this trip like it’s my last. I forgot about the mold etc. I told you it could take some time to set up. While on board plan one for the next year. 6 months from now it will be behind you. I've seen it happen. Just keep reminding yourself it's gonna be part of your past. Have a blast. Pattycruise and Templecruiser 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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