I took my younger sister on a European Royal Caribbean cruise. It brought us closer as adults.
In:I took my younger sister on a three-night Royal Caribbean cruise in Europe. Although we had loads of fun exploring new ports of call and taking in the ship's amenities, we also encountered unexpected challenges. From dining times that didn't work for us to choosing the wrong excursions, not everything was perfect about our Harmony of the Seas cruise.

Throughout my 40 cruise vacations, I've been fortunate to travel with friends and family to various destinations across the globe. I explored Alaska with my dad, island-hopped in the Caribbean with my best friend, toured the Greek Isles with my fiancée, and sailed the Mexican Riviera with my "adoptive" mom.
I've been cruising with my sister, Catherine, since I was five years old, starting with our first-ever cruise aboard the Disney Magic in 2005. Since then, we've sailed on ships like Freedom of the Seas, Disney Fantasy, Oasis of the Seas, Allure of the Seas, and Harmony of the Seas for family vacations to the Caribbean. However, it wasn't until recently that we took our first European cruise together.
We've had plenty of ups and downs over the years, but traveling has always been one of the ways we stay close, whether planning trips to European Christmas markets or reminiscing about past cruises with our now-deceased mom.

(Pictured above: The author and her sister on a seven-night Caribbean cruise aboard Harmony of the Seas in 2018)
With Catherine starting medical school in a few months, we figured now was the perfect opportunity to take a trip to new-to-us destinations before her schedule becomes demanding and unpredictable.
So, we boarded Harmony of the Seas in Barcelona, Spain, after the 226,963 gross-ton Oasis Class ship finished up her Royal Amplification. Although the cruise was short, we made the most of every moment, wandering through new European ports and checking out all the ship's exciting activities.
That said, we encountered a few unexpected challenges along the way. While they weren't make-or-break issues, they required us to remain flexible and adjust our expectations.
My Time Dining started too late for us.

I always select My Time Dining on Royal Caribbean cruises because I like the flexibility of planning dinner around my day, rather than planning my day around dinner.
In this case, however, I regret not choosing a set dining time, as My Time didn't open for passengers until 7:30 p.m. After walking a minimum of 25,000 steps each day, we were starving by the time 5:00 p.m. rolled around.
On the second night, Catherine suggested that we ask the head waiter if we could possibly be seated with the earlier traditional dining time. To our surprise (and relief), they had no issue accommodating us!

The following night, we returned to the dining room and asked to be seated earlier. Once again, the crew members were accommodating and quickly found us a table.
This was an important lesson for me in actually discussing plans together, rather than defaulting to what I've done out of habit. Had I simply asked my sister about her dining preference, we could have had set plans from the start.
We should have booked a different excursion in Marseille, France.

Initially, we planned to shuttle to Marseille and walk around on our own. However, we decided that we'd prefer an excursion, so we could explore somewhere more interesting and avoid the stress of navigating a new city on our own.
Catherine found an affordable Royal Caribbean-sponsored excursion to Aix-en-Provence. It wasn't a guided tour. Rather, it simply provided round-trip transportation to the charming town, giving us a set amount of time to explore at our own pace.
Having previously visited Aix-en-Provence on another Mediterranean cruise, I was excited to return and revisit some of the places I remembered, especially the churches.

In reality, the small town was much busier than I recalled, and we happened to visit during a sweltering heat wave. This meant it was much harder to enjoy the sights, with the crowds and heat making the experience far more draining than expected.
As such, we both agreed we would have preferred a more relaxed excursion sailing through the Calanques. After several busy days filled with walking, sightseeing, and navigating new cities, something slower-paced and on the water would have been a much better fit.
Still, we made the most of our day in France and found a few quality souvenir shops (highly recommend Franc 1884 for lavender spindles and Expressions for local art), ate plenty of pastries, and took breaks in the shade whenever we could.
I regret not booking the same flights.

I'm a loyal American Airlines flyer, but I couldn't justify the pricey flights from Charlotte, North Carolina, to Barcelona, Spain. Instead, I found cheaper, more reasonable flights aboard Lufthansa, coming in at less than $1,100 round-trip. The price included a checked bag. However, I couldn't select my seat assignment until 24 hours before departure.
My sister is even more of a devout American Airlines loyalist and refused to fly with me. As such, she flew separately from Greensboro to Philadelphia (to take advantage of the new flagship lounge) and onward to Barcelona.
We both ended up in Barcelona on time before the cruise, but flying separately added an extra layer of logistics, with different schedules and layovers. In fact, Catherine arrived eight hours earlier than I did, which gave her a full day to explore Spain.

In the end, her flights weren't much more expensive than mine, costing $1,375.83. I wish I had booked the same flights instead, even if it required driving an hour and a half to a smaller airport. Arriving earlier would have made the start of the trip feel far more relaxed, and we would have had more time in Barcelona together.
Despite a few minor issues, most of our European cruise was great, and I'm thankful for the quality time with my sister!

No cruise vacation is ever 100% perfect. From inclement weather to packing mistakes, bad cabins, and annoying neighbors, it's important to prepare for the unexpected.
Even though Catherine and I encountered a few issues during our European Royal Caribbean cruise, we refused to let it put a damper on our vacation. Most of our trip was incredible, and we made so many wonderful memories together aboard Harmony of the Seas and in our two ports of call: Palma de Mallorca and Marseille, France.
We got to watch breathtaking sunsets on the pool deck, wander the cobblestone streets of Aix-en-Provence, eat tapas in Barcelona, and enjoy the unique entertainment aboard the ship, including AquaTheater and ice skating shows — I'll definitely remember the shared experiences far more than the mishaps!























































































