From my experiences, the MDR dress code isn't very strictly enforced. I've gone to the dining room in shorts and a t-shirt on the first evening, which while not encouraged, doesn't cause any problems either. The hard fast rule tends to be that you can't go in without being entirely clothed (e.g. no swimsuits, undershirts, etc.)
Feel free to wear whatever you think is most appropriate for the setting. Just recognize not all guests will be of the same mindset and some may be a bit more dressed up while others a bit more dressed down.