It was my dilemma as well. My wife and I are boarding the Oasis this April. It will be our first cruise with our daughter, who is 1.5 years old. We were not wanting to drink a lot of alcohol due to having our daughter with us, so we decided to purchase the Refreshment Package during RCL Black Friday sale for $165 per person, which included the gratuities. However, this past week my wife and I talked about our upcoming cruise and what our alcohol consumption would be. I saw that the Deluxe Package was $72.99 per day per person, which was the price during the Black Friday sale. The total cost is $602 per person with gratuities for the Deluxe Package. So I did some math and saw the difference between the Refreshment Package and Deluxe Package came out to $437. If you divide the difference by seven nights, that comes out to $62.43 a day. So we would have to drink just about 4.5 drinks each, every day, to break even. We looked at each other and said that we could do it. That amount of alcohol is not large, in our opinion. It would be two drinks on the pool deck, two more at dinner, and one at a show. We will most likely just be breaking even, but the peace of mind and not seeing that bill keep growing on my stateroom tv is very appealing to me. Ultimately we bought the Deluxe Package and are happy with our decision!!! 56 days until we get our first drink and see that $0 on the receipt!!!! Another thing I love about the Deluxe Package lol.