Can't help you with who to speak with but I can say that the LGBT were still having scheduled meet ups-listed in the Cruise Compass- on both Adventure of the Seas (August) and Oasis (Sept). Us solo sailers brought up to the cruise director that it was unfair there was nothing for single sailers. The response-while very apologetic: "they don't want us hooking up". So I guess the LGBT community does not "hook up" during sailings.