Lanti

We are travelling with another couple who have older kids and one of our kids is too young for any of the dolphin encounters offered by RC. If I book directly with Dolphinaris he can participate in the Dolphin Interactive Program, but it does not include the VIP area (don't know exactly where that is, or what is special about it) or transportation. Will they really not allow my 3 year old in the VIP area??? Also, will my husband have to buy direct with Dolphinaris since they require a paying adult? Or does his purchase through RC count? Has anyone experienced the same *In Tim Gun voice * CONUNDRUM? Any insight is appreciated!