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sk8erguy1978 reacted to twangster in WAPO: The Demise of Formal Nights on Cruises: How dress codes are tearing passengers apart
I've seen that on land but never on a ship, including Anthem. I'm surprised they had sports coats available to hand out. Seems like a great way to spread germs.
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sk8erguy1978 got a reaction from Curt From Canada in WAPO: The Demise of Formal Nights on Cruises: How dress codes are tearing passengers apart
That's exactly what I do ... If she's wearing something nice I'll ask what she thinks will complement her outfit and pack accordingly.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to Oliver in WAPO: The Demise of Formal Nights on Cruises: How dress codes are tearing passengers apart
I don’t think it’s just cruises. Our society has moved this way entirely. As a child I always dressed up to go out to dinner unless it was McDonald's. We always dressed up to go to the theater as well, and to go to Temple. Now nobody dresses up anywhere. People even show up to our local Synagogue in jeans and t-shirts. I hate it but it’s just the way it is. And I’m not even that old. I’m 49.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to Curt From Canada in WAPO: The Demise of Formal Nights on Cruises: How dress codes are tearing passengers apart
I definitely agree with @twangster, and I disagree with WAPO (I am not torn apart ... and I don't sense this is a big deal to many). However ...
I dress for no one. Not at work (OK, maybe for customers), not at home, and not on a cruise. With one massive exception. I dress for my soulmate. Since I really can’t see what I am wearing, and I really could care less about what anyone else thinks, I dress for only one person ... the woman I fell in love with 40 years ago and the woman I want to make happy every single day of my life.
I also do not care what other people wear … I am looking at my soulmate, everyone else is the equivalent of “visual background noise” … Sorry if some of you are upset.
I see frequent requests for what is acceptable in the MDR, and on Formal nights. I understand these requests are sincere questions about what is normal and tolerated. My advice is ... Ask your soulmate. Ask the person who you are devoted to. Ask the only person on the earth that matters. You and they will be much happier as a result.
On a cruise (and many times at home), I wear what my soulmate wants. She also asks me what I prefer that she wears, and I am honest and very appreciative when she responds. When we do this, almost always she says I “look sexy”, and I feel great (I also laugh a little). I think she is the most beautiful, engaging woman on the ship, and I would wear anything to make her happy.
I hope everyone can have this feeling when they go cruising.
Curt from Canada.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to twangster in WAPO: The Demise of Formal Nights on Cruises: How dress codes are tearing passengers apart
I understand that some people like to dress up. The question is why does that require everyone to follow their dress standard?
Why do some people who choose to dress more formal get offended when someone doesn’t conform to their level of dress?
What if people dressing better is offensive to people who just wear jeans and a polo shirt? Should the cruise line ban people who wear something too nice? They just want to relax but now they feel like their oppressive boss or parents are present, judging them, stressing them.
What other people are wearing does not change the taste of your food. Food does not taste better if the person at the next table is wearing a tux. Food does not taste worse is the person at the next table is wearing jeans.
Dressing up and taking pictures can be accomplished even if the people in the next cabin don’t. You can choose to make every night a dress up night.
People who don’t dress up aren’t stressed about this. They aren’t being torn. They are enjoying the cruise they paid for.
No mass market cruise line should be forcing guests to conform to a dress code. You can’t market a cruise to the masses and then enforce a dress code for the elite of society on any night.
Stop judging other people. Focus on your family and dress however you choose to and enjoy your dining experience.
If you can’t stop judging other guests and this is ruining your cruise it may be time to look for a boutique cruise line that will satisfy your level of expectations. The mass cruise market isn’t for you.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to coneyraven in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
Bungee Cords ..... that'll hold it together.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to twangster in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
Courtesy of the Johnson and Johnson company.
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sk8erguy1978 got a reaction from Ogilthorpe in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
It's like the color tape on a brake light!
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to CGTLH in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
Think anyone will notice...
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to MicroBeta in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
A little spackle and some paint and it's good as new. ?
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to coneyraven in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
It should buff right out. Better get some of that Flex-Seal tape
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to SPS in Beverages - Spiked Seltzer on board?
I noticed this morning that a can of Truly Hard Seltzer has been photoshopped into the DBP image in the Cruise Planner. (It wasn't there last week.)
I doesn't quite look like it belongs there. The added "shadow" is much less soft around the edges than the other items in the original photo.
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sk8erguy1978 got a reaction from twangster in An Amplified Agglomeration of Oasis Pictures - Post Amplification
Thanks for the photos! Excellent work! I'm now extremely excited for September! We have not sailed her since 2012 so it'll be totally different!
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sk8erguy1978 got a reaction from WAAAYTOOO in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
As soon as I opened a non-incognito window I was able to read the article. Honestly, the videos & photos posted here are better anyway.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to twangster in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
The Legend about an hour before the assault occurred.
Glory's original approach from a distance.
Right after the crash the Legend had to reset some lines.
This was after the crash and near miss as she circled around for a second try.
She did a nice turn to expose her stern to us.
If at first you don't succeed, try again.
Round two the Captain's girlfriend wasn't at the helm so it went a little better. Practice makes perfect.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to twangster in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
For context, the NCL Sun aborted her approach an hour before and skipped Cozumel.
She got pretty close to the shallow water nearly running over the anchor buoys used by local excursion boats.
The anchor buoys were in her prop wash. She collected herself and decided to move on.
MarineTraffic.com shows her track.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to twangster in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
I understand based on news reports one passenger on the Glory was injured. Thoughts and prayers for that individual.
Here is the video I shot from my balcony on Oasis.
Despite the collision with the Legend, the bridge crew on the Glory did a pretty spectacular job avoiding a collision with the Oasis. When I first saw the bow of the Glory come into view it was close. Too close. It occured to me a collision was highly possible.
As I was shooting the video I was keeping an eye on the stern of Glory. It was getting closer. I knew they couldn't apply a lot of stern thrust to keep the stern off us without driving the bow into the bow of Oasis. As the bow of Glory began to clear the bow of Oasis I could see them apply stern thrust to avoid impact. It was a tight near miss and excellent seamanship on their part to avoid a second collision.
The wide angle lens is misleading. The people on Glory were close. I could have tossed them a bottle of water.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to SpeedNoodles in Carnival ships collide, almost hit Oasis
Of COURSE @twangster would have a balcony cabin on the correct side of the ship to catch this! Thanks for sharing!
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to twangster in Who would ever let go of your child, even if there was no glass there?
Thanks for sharing.
I had mixed feelings about watching the video knowing the outcome.
It does pretty clearly show him lean out the window before lifting her. I don't think you can lean that far over the railing without sticking your head through the window and outside the glass. With his body so far over the hand railing I cannot accept that he didn't know the window was open.
I also don't understand why the family is covering for him. If my parents or in-laws did something like this and the video clearly showed what it does I would be not be so understanding and covering for them, I would be livid at them. They would have to do some serious explaining to me.
What is wrong with this family?
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sk8erguy1978 got a reaction from Trish D in WAPO: The Demise of Formal Nights on Cruises: How dress codes are tearing passengers apart
Personally we don't get too dressy for formal night anymore (she'll wear a dress, I'll have shirt/tie dress pants - no suit); We also have not been to the main dining room on formal night in years. It's a few reason, one is to respect passengers who dress to the nines, the other is we aren't into the dining room experience. We've booked specialty restaurants or just gone to the windjammer. With two Oasis class sailings in 2020 the odds of seeing the inside of the dining room are very low.
With that, I do notice some people are very vocal (on the internet) about those not following the rules. I get why (kinda) but it's just energy not needing to be spent. Enjoy the company you're around, it's vacation after all.
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to PG Cruiser in Who would ever let go of your child, even if there was no glass there?
But taking a plea deal might jeopardize their case against Royal
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to YOLO in Who would ever let go of your child, even if there was no glass there?
He would be crazy not to take it...
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sk8erguy1978 reacted to WoodsCommaElle in Who would ever let go of your child, even if there was no glass there?
I believe Grandpa has/had another court appearance today, or a pre-trial conference was scheduled. Looking forward to the latest on that.
Edit: He was offered a plea deal. It seems like he’d be getting off too easy to me. Minimum probation and supervision? Basically he’d be walking scot-free? But I’m not a lawyer so it’s possible I don’t get this fully:
https://wsbt.com/news/local/local-grandfather-charged-in-cruise-ship-death-of-toddler-offered-plea-deal
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sk8erguy1978 got a reaction from MikeK in WAPO: The Demise of Formal Nights on Cruises: How dress codes are tearing passengers apart
Personally we don't get too dressy for formal night anymore (she'll wear a dress, I'll have shirt/tie dress pants - no suit); We also have not been to the main dining room on formal night in years. It's a few reason, one is to respect passengers who dress to the nines, the other is we aren't into the dining room experience. We've booked specialty restaurants or just gone to the windjammer. With two Oasis class sailings in 2020 the odds of seeing the inside of the dining room are very low.
With that, I do notice some people are very vocal (on the internet) about those not following the rules. I get why (kinda) but it's just energy not needing to be spent. Enjoy the company you're around, it's vacation after all.