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    JennyJenny got a reaction from KathyC in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    So. Yeah. This is not happening.
    They canceled on me today.
     
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    JennyJenny reacted to Matt in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    Really sorry @JennyJenny
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from Ogilthorpe in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    So. Yeah. This is not happening.
    They canceled on me today.
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from JLMoran in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    So. Yeah. This is not happening.
    They canceled on me today.
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from PRebecca in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    So. Yeah. This is not happening.
    They canceled on me today.
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from WAAAYTOOO in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    So. Yeah. This is not happening.
    They canceled on me today.
     
  7. Sad
    JennyJenny got a reaction from KristiZ in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    So. Yeah. This is not happening.
    They canceled on me today.
     
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    JennyJenny reacted to Cruise Queen 44 * Diamond in How I'll Cruise Differently After Covid-19   
    Great topic for people to respond to.
    When do you all think the cruise lines will be back up and running, "business as usual"?  Once the suspension ends, it will probably take some time for the itineraries to be rescheduled and the destinations to clean up from this mess before they welcome tourist back into their countries. 
    I suspect this is going to hurt the industry for at least 3-6 months. 
    I'm doing my best to get "real" people's opinions and not pay any attention to the circus my husband is watching on tv.  LOL!  
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from KathyC in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from Big Tule in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
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    JennyJenny reacted to SpeedNoodles in Can we give a special shout out to all of the great travel agents...   
    who are working especially hard during this Covidilemma - waiting on hold with the cruise companies (ALL of them!), rebooking, refunding, repricing, upgrading - WHATEVER.  I imagine they are all putting in LOTS of extra hours to help their clients.  (We're looking at you, M.E.I. folks, but also so many more of the great ones out there!).
    We appreciate you!
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from Vangrizz in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from spiralqueen in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
  14. Wow
    JennyJenny got a reaction from ellcee in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from Skigoofy in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
  16. Wow
    JennyJenny got a reaction from WAAAYTOOO in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from JLMoran in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    UPDATE: Still planning to go!
    Pinged our TA yesterday to ask about keeping an eye on canceling folks to see if we could wrangle a free or cheap upgrade as they were out of balconies by the time we booked.
    One of the men with the group sent an email out asking if we should go ahead and cancel as a group and I think every wife in the group shut that down immediately.
    At this point in time he appears to the be the only one worried about going. The rest of us are still planning and now that my big event I had to put on is over, I can start thinking about packing!
    Luggage tags are printed out.
    We have booked our excursion through the TA. As we are in Bermuda for three days, the excursion is on day 2 in the middle so no worries about missing the ship.
    Our excursion is being put together by the TA who also happens to be a member of our group and is going to be a LONG all day one and includes:
    History of Dock Yard and Attractions
    17th Century home and evolution of the unique Bermuda Home construction
    Somerset Bridge - the smallest drawbridge in the world
    The Gibbs Hill Lighthouse Vista
    Tour along the beautiful South Shore (beach and ocean views)
    Horseshoe Bay Vista
    Botanical Gardens and the official home of the Premier of Bermuda
    Tuckers Town and Glimpse of the home of New York’s Mayor Bloomberg
    The Crystal Caves
    The town of St. George - a UNESCO World Heritage site & Bermuda’s Capital for 200 yrs
    While in St George Collect a few pieces of colored, weather worn glass at GLASS BEACH
    17th century reenactment (Mon through Thurs) - participants in period costumes
    Lunch Bermuda Style
    Tour along the North Shore
    View the Governor’s mansion
    Driving tour of the City of Hamilton - current capital since 1815
    Driving tour of Harbour Road - view of Hamilton from across the Harbour
    Scenic route back to Dock Yard
     
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    JennyJenny reacted to HAK1906 in Symphony of the Seas (March 7-14) The time is here   
    Very windy day today started off at Solarium Bistro for breakfast with two made to order eggs. I drink almond milk and just had to request it and they provided for my coffee. Will see how El Loco fresh is for lunch. 
     
    in between lunch on deck 15 aft having a cigar with Buffalo Trace living a great life. YOLO. 
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    JennyJenny reacted to Dan Curtis in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    I always pick up,a cigar for a co worker, I actually buy one on the ship, they have a nice variety and can assist in your choice and the prices are decent. One hint, buy a cigar with a tin cover so,it,will be protected during travel. 
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    JennyJenny reacted to Va4fam in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    Following along @JennyJenny.   So excited for your Grandeur "Phoenix" cruise.  Bermuda is very nice.   
    I also live about 2 hours west of you but have yet to sail on Grandeur or from Baltimore and excited to read about your adventures.   We just sailed on Empress last week and were absolutely wowed by her charm and amazing crew.   Imagine Grandeur will be the same, wish she wasn't leaving the fleet.
    Seems like there are quite a few of us that are nearby, maybe we can get Matt to come up and do a "get together" or do one on our own.  
     
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    JennyJenny got a reaction from Va4fam in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    I've taken a look at the dates on the other blogs so that I am not too early to start mine.
    I figure there is at least one blog already for the same week I am going, I have already got my set sail pass, and luggage tags (allegedly) will be up for print some time today, I am well within my window to begin blogging? Part of the early start is so that as I prepare and pack, I can pick up last minute tips, hints, advice, and guidance from folks out here. You all are a wealth of information and even though I don't post often, I do read daily and feel like I have gotten to know so many of you ?
    Itinerary: Baltimore to King's Wharf, Bermuda back to Baltimore.
    Prologue: I had always wanted to go on a cruise but my former spouse (key word being FORMER) would pitch a fit if I suggested it. I won't list his complaints, I have seen you all are familiar with all of them. FINALLY during our 12th year of marriage, my parents offered to take the family on a cruise. Our daughter was 5 at the time and I was so looking forward to it. Without going into detail, the cruise was awful. Wait. No. My x was awful which made the entire trip one that I remember with just sadness. We went for the Thanksgiving week that year and on the 6th of December (a few weeks after) I was escaping in the middle of the night with two packed suitcases and my baby girl. I share this so everyone knows that "cruise" has held such unpleasant memories and feelings for a very long time for me and there was a time that I swore I'd never go on one again. (I thought I had gone on RC but I found my old card in a box of papers a few months back and turns out we'd taken a line that must not be named...)
    Fast forward ten years. Yup. Ten years. December 2019 was my 10 year anniversary of sneaking those packed suitcases out of the house in the dead of night. I celebrated last year with my daughter (we are both doing amazingly well, are incredibly happy, and have not once regretted the decision to evacuate) and by deciding that I would like to try another cruise because it's not fair to let that one bad experience taint an entire vacation option. To be fair, the cruise was miserable because I was stuck with a falling down drunk x who was being a jerk face and refused to do anything other than drink endless Grey Goose martinis and sleep in the dark room. There were a few highlights like taking my daughter to swim with dolphins but overall.... ?
    The universe sent me a sign last year in the form of a Fraternal organization that I am a member of decided to take a group cruise. It was so spur of the moment and the price was so good and there is another single lady that has a similar background to me as it pertains to the x so I had a room mate to share the cost and I just decided to, as they say here, "YOLO Book It!"
    I am really excited for this cruise. We will be going to Bermuda, which I have never been to. (The previous one was to the Bahamas). Sailing out of Baltimore MD which is right near where I live in Washington DC (NOVA) area. Last weekend, I had breakfast with the group who is going. There are 32 of us! Our travel agent is the wife of one of our members (it's an International organization) as well as a member herself. The "core group" that is going from my Chapter is myself and my single gal pal and two other married couples we are quite chummy with.
    I have been slowly preparing since we booked so have been buying a few cute outfits and other goodies. For Xmas, Santa gave me a huge box of those Chlorox with Hydrogen Peroxide wipes and the special luggage tags and a charger thing that I have seen recommended out here by many so my gal pal (GP) and I can charge our stuff up.
    Side note: we are all a bit on the older side (40s, GP is in her 60s, etc) and no kids coming with. Many of us work long hard jobs so we are looking forward to relaxing and decompressing versus "party all the time".
    I hear the Neil Diamond Cruise Director guy has left this ship so I am a bit sad about that.
    Things I am looking forward to:
    Not working. Although I will stress a little about leaving my assistant in charge without me there for a full week. Prepping her now. She can do this. It will all be fine. (Right?)
    We are going to be touring the Crystal Caves on a special tour our TA set up for us. We are docked in Bermuda for three days so there is no worry about missing the ship if it runs late.
    I hear we are going on a pub crawl. I don't drink but I adore a nice pub (there were some gorgeous ones in London when I went).
    Karaoke and Trivia.
    Mocktails by the pool.
    Sunshine.
    This will be my first real vacation in over ten years. (I think y'all know what I mean when I say that I have gone on holiday but have ALWAYS had either my daughter or parents with me so that's not always a "vacation"....)
    I plan to live blog as the internet allows. I am going to plan my packing here as that kind of helps me focus and make sure I am not forgetting things. I am taking my fancy camera as the wife of one of the couples we will be with does photography so hoping she helps me learn more how to use the camera. And with all respect to those who like bigger ships, I am so looking forward to sailing the Grandeur before she leaves Baltimore because I feel like I prefer the smaller, quieter, less "Mall of America" ships. (Even though I have never been on any RC ships so a research project is probably called for ?)
    I've also found very little in reference to what Grandeur has with menus and food etc so I'll share that for those like me who are trying to find things and can't.
    My GP also booked this as a YOLO and both of us are kind of apprehensive about our first solo vacations in YEARS. We have spent so many years taking care of others that going on a cruise by ourselves and not having to tend to children or elderly parents is like...... what do I do?
    My ultimate goal is to erase that prior "incident" and make happy new memories with friends. I am calling this the "DO OVER CRUISE!"
    On that note.... 60 Days to Go!!!!!!
  23. Haha
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    JennyJenny reacted to WAAAYTOOO in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    The local rum of Bermuda is Goslings. We did a harbor tour with Goslings a few years ago. I thought the rum was good.  It’s an idea.
  25. Like
    JennyJenny got a reaction from Jax in Do Over! Grandeur of the Seas - April 24 - May 1, 2020 - 7 Night Bermuda   
    I've taken a look at the dates on the other blogs so that I am not too early to start mine.
    I figure there is at least one blog already for the same week I am going, I have already got my set sail pass, and luggage tags (allegedly) will be up for print some time today, I am well within my window to begin blogging? Part of the early start is so that as I prepare and pack, I can pick up last minute tips, hints, advice, and guidance from folks out here. You all are a wealth of information and even though I don't post often, I do read daily and feel like I have gotten to know so many of you ?
    Itinerary: Baltimore to King's Wharf, Bermuda back to Baltimore.
    Prologue: I had always wanted to go on a cruise but my former spouse (key word being FORMER) would pitch a fit if I suggested it. I won't list his complaints, I have seen you all are familiar with all of them. FINALLY during our 12th year of marriage, my parents offered to take the family on a cruise. Our daughter was 5 at the time and I was so looking forward to it. Without going into detail, the cruise was awful. Wait. No. My x was awful which made the entire trip one that I remember with just sadness. We went for the Thanksgiving week that year and on the 6th of December (a few weeks after) I was escaping in the middle of the night with two packed suitcases and my baby girl. I share this so everyone knows that "cruise" has held such unpleasant memories and feelings for a very long time for me and there was a time that I swore I'd never go on one again. (I thought I had gone on RC but I found my old card in a box of papers a few months back and turns out we'd taken a line that must not be named...)
    Fast forward ten years. Yup. Ten years. December 2019 was my 10 year anniversary of sneaking those packed suitcases out of the house in the dead of night. I celebrated last year with my daughter (we are both doing amazingly well, are incredibly happy, and have not once regretted the decision to evacuate) and by deciding that I would like to try another cruise because it's not fair to let that one bad experience taint an entire vacation option. To be fair, the cruise was miserable because I was stuck with a falling down drunk x who was being a jerk face and refused to do anything other than drink endless Grey Goose martinis and sleep in the dark room. There were a few highlights like taking my daughter to swim with dolphins but overall.... ?
    The universe sent me a sign last year in the form of a Fraternal organization that I am a member of decided to take a group cruise. It was so spur of the moment and the price was so good and there is another single lady that has a similar background to me as it pertains to the x so I had a room mate to share the cost and I just decided to, as they say here, "YOLO Book It!"
    I am really excited for this cruise. We will be going to Bermuda, which I have never been to. (The previous one was to the Bahamas). Sailing out of Baltimore MD which is right near where I live in Washington DC (NOVA) area. Last weekend, I had breakfast with the group who is going. There are 32 of us! Our travel agent is the wife of one of our members (it's an International organization) as well as a member herself. The "core group" that is going from my Chapter is myself and my single gal pal and two other married couples we are quite chummy with.
    I have been slowly preparing since we booked so have been buying a few cute outfits and other goodies. For Xmas, Santa gave me a huge box of those Chlorox with Hydrogen Peroxide wipes and the special luggage tags and a charger thing that I have seen recommended out here by many so my gal pal (GP) and I can charge our stuff up.
    Side note: we are all a bit on the older side (40s, GP is in her 60s, etc) and no kids coming with. Many of us work long hard jobs so we are looking forward to relaxing and decompressing versus "party all the time".
    I hear the Neil Diamond Cruise Director guy has left this ship so I am a bit sad about that.
    Things I am looking forward to:
    Not working. Although I will stress a little about leaving my assistant in charge without me there for a full week. Prepping her now. She can do this. It will all be fine. (Right?)
    We are going to be touring the Crystal Caves on a special tour our TA set up for us. We are docked in Bermuda for three days so there is no worry about missing the ship if it runs late.
    I hear we are going on a pub crawl. I don't drink but I adore a nice pub (there were some gorgeous ones in London when I went).
    Karaoke and Trivia.
    Mocktails by the pool.
    Sunshine.
    This will be my first real vacation in over ten years. (I think y'all know what I mean when I say that I have gone on holiday but have ALWAYS had either my daughter or parents with me so that's not always a "vacation"....)
    I plan to live blog as the internet allows. I am going to plan my packing here as that kind of helps me focus and make sure I am not forgetting things. I am taking my fancy camera as the wife of one of the couples we will be with does photography so hoping she helps me learn more how to use the camera. And with all respect to those who like bigger ships, I am so looking forward to sailing the Grandeur before she leaves Baltimore because I feel like I prefer the smaller, quieter, less "Mall of America" ships. (Even though I have never been on any RC ships so a research project is probably called for ?)
    I've also found very little in reference to what Grandeur has with menus and food etc so I'll share that for those like me who are trying to find things and can't.
    My GP also booked this as a YOLO and both of us are kind of apprehensive about our first solo vacations in YEARS. We have spent so many years taking care of others that going on a cruise by ourselves and not having to tend to children or elderly parents is like...... what do I do?
    My ultimate goal is to erase that prior "incident" and make happy new memories with friends. I am calling this the "DO OVER CRUISE!"
    On that note.... 60 Days to Go!!!!!!
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